Monday, April 11, 2011

be single is the best way ?



People fear being single and alone. We all need someone to walk the road of life with us. However, if you keep on looking for that someone and all you look forward to is finding that someone, then you are missing the entire beauty of life. If you become so desperate about looking for someone then you are slowly losing all the chances of finding him/her. Being single is not a bad thing. Neither is it something that you should be ashamed of. In this article, you will find something that will inspire your single life.

One of the good things about being single is the opportunity to get back to your old self. Sometimes, we are in a relationship, we are asked to compromise a lot of things including who we are just to please and be accepted by our partners. After the break-up, when we look at ourselves in the mirror, we see someone whom we really do not know. Now that you are on your own, this is the best time to be in your old self again. There is no one there that you should please except yourself. Be in charge of your own happiness and do the things you love to do.
Freedom to decide alone is one of the best things about being single. You don't have to seek someone's approval before you decide. Now, you have all the liberty to choose and decide. Being single entitles you to come up with a decision that would not lead to any emotional chaos, unlike when one is in a relationship.
Being single also entitles you to have more time to spend with your friends. While a person is in a relationship, his/her time for his/her friends lessens for he/she spends most of her time with his/her lover. Now that the relationship is over, one can already bond with his/her friends all he/she wants.

Above all the benefits of being single, the best part of it is the freedom to flirt with almost anybody. You can meet people and flirt with some hot guys or cute girls you meet. Still recovering from a break-up doesn't mean you are still not allowed to flirt. Of course you can always flirt, but never get into a relationship until all wounds have healed.
Try hard to be able to stand on your own two feet alone and not being clingy or dependent to other person and you will find happiness from it. Enjoy your life being single and the benefits it offers. Do not worry much for you will still marry someday, when you finally found the person who allows you to be just the way you are.

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